It's in hell that a saint reveals himself

Failing to forgive, understand
to save your reason and your life

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Guilty and consenting victim

For the victim, rape is worse than death. It leaves her alive, with a feeling of indelible stain and inexplicable guilt.

« The child victim of abuse believes themselves to be guilty. If they feel shame, they believe it justified. If they were not loved, they believe they did not deserve to be. » [ Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross ]
« A deeply unhealthy logic leads people to condemn the victim of a theft on the pretext that his money provoked the thief’s act. » ( Martin Luther King )

Contributions of Martin Luther King on the subject of:

The WAY, LOVE, LIFE or DEATH
« The child who has been abused throughout their childhood will grow into an adult with a profound lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. It will be difficult for them to forgive themselves. Only by working on themselves will they be able to break the chains of their past. » [ Alain Joseph Bellet, 'Dialogues with the spirit world' ]
« I wanted to absolve myself of the sins of others against me, and not to be ashamed of having been raped by the one in whom I had to trust for my future life, and who had murdered me in advance. There was no grief at being raped, there was rage at having covered up these criminal acts. I sank into the insolence of being my father's wife instead of just his daughter. » (Testimony collected by Maddly Bamy, "To love without expecting anything in return")

Contributions by Maddly Bamy on the subject of:

The WAY, LIFE, HEALTH or DEATH

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The fault of the one who violates falls on all men.
That's why, as a man, I ask for your forgiveness.

It is in hell that a saint is revealed.

In the muck of a human life, a magnificent being can germinate

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The victory of the forces of evil

Excerpt from the page: "Evil" :
«I hear like negative voices in my head. » (A call for help among many others)

Evil exists!

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Evil exists—no doubt about it. Its first entry point is thought. From there, it alters our judgments, insinuates itself into our anger and weighs on our words.
« God did not create evil, but granted his creatures free will. » [Paqui, "Heavenly Talks"]

following...
is complete when the soul, blinded by distress, rejects God

« Touch his flesh, and I bet he will openly curse you. » said Satan to Yahweh, pointing to Job..

If, on the other hand, this soul manages to overcome its resentment, the gates of Heaven open to it —a terrible setback for Evil, which will itself have contributed to propelling a being toward the Light.

« What you do in your greatest trial may be your greatest triumph. » [Inspired message to Neale Walsch]
« Some ordeals are messy. The privilege of noble souls is to know how to draw benefit even from evil. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]
« Even when Satan drags a person down to hell, God follows. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
A virgin body is not necessary
when the flame is pure. [ "Dialogues with the Angel" ]

If you cannot forgive, seek to understand
-to save your sanity and your life.

A man can be drawn into a spiral of impulses and frustrations. If, in this turmoil, an opportunity arises, it is humanly difficult to resist—especially as he then comes under the full influence of spirits still attached to matter.

Excerpt from the page: "Low-astral" :

wandering spirits

« Some spirits remain attached to matter. Their low vibrations keep them close to the realm of the living. They haven’t “crossed over.” Some are malevolent spirits, others are wandering spirits, and still others are ghosts.

Wandering spirits are in transition between our material world and the afterlife. They usually remain among us only briefly, yet this state can last for centuries. Indeed, a wandering spirit retains free will ( as well as his personality and inclinations ) , and it is up to it alone to make the crossing » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
following... .

So yes, we can pity this man—blinded by the desire to forget himself for a moment —because each of his actions now pushes him a little further into darkness and farther from the Light.

« The men and women who had exercised their authority over me fell prey to negative energies. » [Betty J. Eadie, "In the Arms of Light"].

« ...for it is inevitable that offenses come; but woe to the person through whom the offense comes. » ( Matthew 18.7 )

When a person chooses evil

« It is up to everyone to choose their path at any time.
As people move beyond themselves

Excerpt from the page: "Reincarnation" :

« The dogma of reincarnation is not new, as some claim. It was revived by Pythagoras, but he was not the author of metempsychosis; he drew it from Indian philosophers and from the Egyptians, where it had existed since time immemorial. However, there is an important difference between ancient metempsychosis and the modern doctrine of reincarnation: spirits absolutely reject the transmigration of humans into animals and vice versa. » [Allan Kardec]
« You have been experimenting with matter in various forms for a long time. You were minerals to learn density and stability; you became plants to bring gentleness and beauty into the world; in the animal kingdom you acquired instinct, awareness of the present moment, and unconditional love; and in the human body you learn choice and the transcendence of the self. » (A. Givaudan, 'La rupture de contrat')

« The phenomenon of rebirths is characterized by a continuum of consciousness, from life to life. » [ Dalai Lama ]
following... , they ultimately end up in their own consequences. » [ "To those who seek" ]

☞ The consequences of a bad deed

« There are beings who must go through the worst experiences in order to find the strength to change a tendency that has lasted through all their incarnations. What can we say about these souls in real danger? That they serve the Evil One out of defiance rather than pleasure.
So you cannot really judge. You can only pity them, entrust them to the care of their guides, still silent in wisdom, and let them follow their own path to truth. This does not prevent society from judging them as it should with all the necessary severity.

Friends, such men are numerous in these days of violence. But the cause is most often a suffering of love: a love never given or received, a fallow love, a betrayed love, a love once dreamed of, then lost.

Friends, pray that love may reach every soul and accomplish its work of regeneration. » [ Brigitte Quéro, "Spiritual Messages" ]

« Thoughts of hate generally create a destructive bond with the hated being, a bond which can endure, bringing suffering to both, across several lifetimes. » (Karl Otto Schmidt, 'We Live More Than Once')

Contributions by Karl Schmidt on the theme of:

The WAY, LIFE ou DEATH

Therefore, dear victim, please do not let hatred gnaw at your heart. It would destroy you (see "Hate"), and bind you beyond this life to your attacker — and that is surely not what you want):

« The unforgiven and the unforgiving will find themselves bound together beyond death, until the day hearts are finally set free. » [ Arnaud Gourvennec, celestial messages ]
Accept these words of friendship, do not push my hand away.
Hate makes you suffer, love makes you whole. No, you are not tainted; it is your attacker who, by letting his bestial instincts dominate him, has renounced his human dignity.

How to (re)find the reason?

Soul and body are separate,
if we do not realize it, reason may feel overwhelmed.

Yes, soul and body are distinct; however, over the course of life, the soul integrates with the body, until it identifies with it. Then wounds strike it directly. It no longer knows that it is« a fragment of the great soul of the world, a spark of the divine spirit. »
The only way to regain reason is to proceed in the opposite direction: remember and fully comprehend in everyone's role:
the soul is here to evolve

What does it mean to evolve?

The bird’s reason for being is to fly.
Man’s reason for being is to elevate his soul;
by collecting, by reflecting the Love of the Universe.
To withdraw into what you accumulate is the complete opposite.

The realization of our being

« The purpose of our life during our passage on Earth, then after our death, in the different worlds of the hereafter, is a steadily deeper realization of our being. » [ Patricia Darré (medium) ]
« Every soul must become aware of itself little by little.

In evolution, the mineral becomes plant, the plant becomes animal and the animal will become human. This is the great chain of life. » (Hélène Bouvier, medium, "Mission of souls in the afterlife")
« What matters for you is to evolve, so as to transform your vibrational state.
The Earth is a domain that allows the soul to alter its vibrations through life experiences, whether easy or difficult. » (R. Terral-Meyer, 'Lettres de l’invisible')
continued... through hardships, lives.
The body is its materialization, for the duration of a lifetime.

« The greatest weakness is to let the tumult from outside grow within you. Your innermost depths must never be touched, whatever the circumstance. » [Celestial message from Roland de Jouvenel]

It is therefore only by rising above
that the soul can help the mind.

« Although the body is subject to all material influences, it can be controlled—along with the emotions—by the mind. And the mind must in turn be guided by the spirit. » [a reading by Edgar Cayce]
« We care so much about the health and wholeness of our body that we fail to realize, until we die, that the body is nothing more than a shell. » (Reflection of a terminally ill young man)

The human soul

Whoever has become so estranged from God that he does evil without remorse will, one day —in this life or another— feel the need to be loved.
Then the soul will open, will suffer, and finally, awakening will begin.
We are indignant in the face of violence and cruelty; yet let’s admit it, we have all gone through the stage of doing wrong thoughtlessly.

« The Spirit, like human beings, also has its own childhood. » [Message collected by Allan Kardec]

☞ The progression of the human soul

☞ In the face of wickedness